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Who We Help:
Couples come to me when they feel stuck in a relationship rut. They are tired of the endless arguments, the painful misunderstandings, and the hurt feelings that lead to sleepless nights and destroy any chance of romance, passion and intimacy'.
And... they need a breakthrough…
They want to remember why they fell in love in the first place.
They want to feel like BFF friends again, like 'I got Your back' partners again and bring back that - OMG thank you, smiling the whole next day, love life.
Who I Am:
Paul Sterling here, I’m a best selling author of the relationship communication book ‘Argue Less, Love More, a relationship coach for couples to help them communicate better, get their needs met, resolve conflicts and bring back that loving feeling.
I also teaches my Argue Less, Love More Method to counselors and therapists and co-created the ‘Delicious Love, Intimacy and Communication 90 Day Retreat Program.
I have spent over 25 years coaching couples. He studied and worked for Tony Robbins, has been mentored by Bob Proctor (from the secret) and Marshall Rosenberg .
What I Do Is:
I help couples create breakthroughs in their relationship who currently feel stuck in a relationship rut.
They could be caught up in constant conflict, feeling helpless and hopeless about things getting better where everything they try just makes things worse… but don’t want to call it quits… yet!
Or… they may be in the middle of a painful, frustrating, heartbreaking crisis where they want to bring back the love, but don’t think it’s possible and they are running out of time, patience and ideas.
And most likely… They have tried almost everything out there.
This includes reading books, listening to audio programs, taking workshops and couples counseling (one couple had gone through 6 therapists before they found us – they were starting to feel really hopeless)… each of these experiences helped for a while but nothing really get to the bottom of it.
Our Clients Are Dealing With:
Lost Intimacy, one of the first casualties of the battle between the sexes is your sex life.
Communication Problems, the quality of your relationship is based on the quality of your communication, and when you communication falls apart – so does your relationship.
Constant Conflicts, without the right tools and skills conflicts and misunderstandings tend to get recycled over and over without ever getting resolved.
Broken Agreements, when this happens it erodes trust… and that leads to lost passion.
Jealousy, whether it’s yours or your partners… this can be a painful emotion that creates separation when you want connection
Cheating, when this happens it can end a relationship, or at least be a major set back.
Lost Trust, the foundation of any long term relationship is trust, it is easy to wreck, hard to rebuild.
Difficulty Dealing With Decisions, how do you make those difficult decisions without someone’s feeling getting hurt and whole thing spiraling downward into a shit storm… ahhhh
Needs Not Met, another area of conflict is when one or both people aren’t getting their needs met and the don’t have the skills to talk about it without things getting out of hand.
Financial Issues, this is the last but not least. After the romantic phase of a relationship, people have to move into the practical phase. This includes the matter of money. How are you going to make it, spend it, save it… who gets to decide. That one can create lots of issues.
Ready For Your Relationship Breakthrough?
Here’s the deal.
I’m here for you. The truth is I’m here for both of you.
Because If both of you don’t win - nobody wins and your relationship will become another statistic"
I’ve watched these Relationship Breakthrough Conversations create magic so often, that I'm willing to invest an hour of my time, are you willing to invest an hour to see what’s really possible.
So click the link below - https://www.arguelesslovemore.net/time
find a day, a date, a time that works for both of you and schedule your FREE Relationship Breakthrough Conversation today
See If These Testimonials Speak To You
“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."
Jessie, Essex Junction VT
“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.
The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”
Linda P. - NY, NY
“My relationship was so broken and was only a matter of time before ended. We had turned into roommates rather than partners, and only roommates that were living together out of necessity.
We are only about halfway through the course and I can already see unlimited possibility. My book of life now has chapters of blank pages at the end for me to write whatever story I want.”
Ben – Santa Cruz, CA
“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.
Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”
Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ
“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.”
Jerome – Golden, Colorado
“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language, and infrastructure we both successfully use.
We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”
Melodia - San Diego, CA
“We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp. And they were so immediately that the general "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session.
We can't thank you enough!”
K.L Denver, CO
“I came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save my relationship. I had tried everything I could think of to get my relationship "unstuck" over many years and nothing worked.
Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach. We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit. All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us.
As a couple, we interact differently and have largely ridded ourselves of the detrimental communication patterns we had fallen into and couldn't get out of by ourselves. We are happier and more open with one another now and enjoy the new space that has opened up for us.
Our thanks go to Paul as well as our recommendation. He's exceptionally good at what he does”.
M.L. San Diego, CA
“My fiancé signed us up for your 3-hour workshop. I have studied quite a bit of self-help strategies for relationships over the years as well as studied psychology in college.
The tools you have given us, as well as the guidance to effectively use them are invaluable. Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven together many different techniques and methods to create something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s easy to learn and remember!
I am finding that I am using the communication tools you have taught us in all my relationships, not just with my fiancé. I feel more confident and comfortable in myself and within my relationships. I have more patience than I have ever had!
I highly recommend your workshop, and think everyone should seize the opportunity to learn your magic relationship techniques! Thank you from all my heart,”
Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT
"I took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all, it opened up our communications beautifully.
There were a lot of things we hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be exposed, as a result, created more trust between us, which I already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of."
Dr. Lawrence C. Boulder, CO
Want to Hear Several Case Studies... Watch this..
Paul Sterling went from being a commercial fisherman in Alaska to a sought-after couples coach, an international public speaker on love and relationships, and is the best-selling author of Argue Less, Love More which was #1 with both
couples and counselors. His video, Tantra: Exploring Sacred Sexuality, has been viewed more than 6 million times.
Sterling was a US Delegate for Soviet American Peace Dialogue, Tony Robbins hired him to come and teach his inner circle, he has taught Compassionate Communication Skills to the professors and staff at Naropa University, and taught prison inmates about the power of communication to turn around their lives, he has lead classes around the world from Hawaii to Hong Kong, Alaska to Mexico, Bali to Croatia and all around the USA
Paul helps couples from around the world communicate better, clear up misunderstandings, resolve ongoing conflicts and get their needs met so that they can deepen their intimacy and go from feeling ignored to being adored.
When he is not traveling around the world and teaching, Paul enjoys whitewater kayaking in Colorado, mountain biking through the redwoods of California and learning how to surf in Hawaii.
“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and
we noticed a difference right away. Our relationship has never
been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”
- Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ
"We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp. And they were so immediately that the general "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session. We can't thank you enough!”
- K.L Denver, CO
"The tools you have given us, as well as the
guidance to effectively use them are invaluable.
Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven
together many different techniques and methods to create
something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s
easy to learn and remember!"
- Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT
"Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier
in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about
trying a coach.
We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how
could a relationship coach be of benefit.
All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance
with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."
- M.L. San Diego, CA