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Want Better Communication in Your Relationship?
Take the 21 Days To Better Communication Challenge

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Let me save you some time by letting you know who this is for and who it isn't for.


IF you are someone who can still talk to your partner about anything and everything without either of you getting triggered...


... and if you can melt away most misunderstandings in minutes... 


...and if you can meet conflicts and upsets head-on with courage and compassion.

THEN you can stop reading right here... you don't need these tools.​

BUT if you are like most couples and have some issues in the communication department - read on.

My name is Paul Sterling and I help couples turn their relationship around by teaching betters ways to communicate. I have noticed 5 core mistakes couples make no matter where the world they come from...

I'll add more of a bio later - but let just say, communication was not one of my skills, and talking to the opposite sex left me at a loss for words.

What I'm saying here is everything I am teaching here can be learned by almost anyone. The tools are simple but take time and practice to master.

With Purpose, Passon, and Possibility,

Paul Sterling
Communication & Intimacy Coach for Couples

Communication Skills Help You…

  • Get Heard, Understood, and Valued By Your Partner

  • Avoid The 5 Mistakes That Stop Open and Honest Communication In Its Tracks and Block Any Chance Of Intimacy

  • Reduce The Amount Of Trauma, Misunderstandings, Arguments, and Upsets

  • Increase The Amount Of Trust, Intimacy, Connection, And Compassion In Your Relationship…


(Even If Your Are a Communication Disaster Right Now And Collasp or Attack Under Pressure and Both of You Get Triggered All The Time.)

Welcome To: The Better Communication Challenge - 21 Days ​​

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What’s the biggest communication goal you and your partner would like to achieve?

You’d like to feel understood and valued while clearly communicating your wants, needs, and feelings to your partner…

You want to clear up past misunderstandings and learn how to resolve conflicts quickly, confidently, and compassionately.

You’re wishing to communicate in a way that encourages your partner to listen and understand, allowing them to open up to you while sharing their own thoughts and emotions

The Better Communication - 21 Day Challenge ​​

The Better Communication - 21 Day Challenge, is a 3-module online course designed to help you learn how to communicate, ignite intimacy, and help you and your partner feel valued, heard, and understood.

It includes…

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  • 4-5 Lessons per module (15-25 minutes each)

  • Downloadable bonuses

  • Journal for progress-tracking & notes

  • Lesson transcripts

  • Printable handouts to use for the exercises

Here’s what we’ll go over inside
The Better Communication Challenge 

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THE 5 PAINFUL COMMUNICATION MISTAKES that we all make when communicating with our partner.

Have you ever felt that you’d done or said something wrong, something that upset your partner-but you didn’t even realize what it was? In this module, we identify common communication errors so you can avoid them now, prevent them in future, and learn to heal quickly when triggered.

Some of them include…

  • Mistake #1: which causes your partner to stop listening to you and shut themselves down emotionally.


  • Mistake #3 : which causes about 90% of all misunderstandings in relationships (and that’s actually easy to fix.)


  • Mistake #5 : which puts a sudden stop to the openness and intimacy in your relationship.

These mistakes can often make you feel distant and disconnected from your partner.  Once you know how to avoid them, you’ll stop widening the emotional gap between you, and start reducing and resolving misunderstandings and conflicts.  You’ll have the chance to be open and honest, growing closer in an atmosphere of trust.



Using my four-step method, you’ll to able to rekindle the spark between you and your partner, even if it has been missing for a long while!


Learn how to enter each other’s worlds openly and create a deep, intimate, and profound connection. Help your partner feel heard, valued, and understood in conversation. 


Build an “us” bubble around you both that enables each person to meet conflicts with compassion and courage, while clearing up misunderstandings in minutes.



Applying any one of these 7 sacred secrets will spark intimacy and make you and your partner feel loved, desired, and understood.

Some of them include…

  • Secret #1: Spark powerful feelings of understanding, compassion, and connection with your partner. You can do it as soon as tonight!   

  • Secret #2: Learn how to show your partner that you hear and understand them, so that you can exponentially increase your intimacy.


  • Secret #7: Have you heard someone say, Don’t sweat the small stuff in your relationship? With Secret #7, you’ll understand why they were wrong, and how you can use the small stuff to foster deep, personal connections.

If you’ve been feeling like your relationship is as shaky as a house of cards, like you’re not getting through to your partner, and worry that you’ll never be able to connect, know that you are not alone.  I’m here to help you 


Build Your Foundation: 

With these three modules, you’ll learn to create a sturdy foundation through clear, connected, and compassionate communication.  You’ll understand how to help your partner feel valued, heard, and understood, transforming your relationship into the very best it can be! 

 - 90 Day -

If you don’t notice a difference in how you handle conflicts and misunderstandings when they do happen, how quickly and confidently you can move through them… you can ask a for refund.


Or if you don’t notice a radical improvement the communication that happens in your relationship -  in other words much more open, honest communication – we’re both of you feel heard understood and valued (how cool is that)… you can ask for refund.


However, if the course does deliver,  if it does exceed your expectations in every way…  then I have a request for you.  Rather than ask for refund, I ask you to send me a testimonial and possibly even a referral?


Does that sound fair?

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                If this course doesn’t WOW you and your partner...


               If you’re not amazed by how many conflicts, upsets

           and misunderstandings you are now avoiding that used
suck you into a downward spiral to relationship hell… you can ask a for refund.

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Couples all around the world LOVE and SWEAR BY Paul’s method. Here are some of their stories:

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.

 - Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ

Start your journey with
The Better Communication Challenge 
today and receive these






Get instant access to the best-selling book:

This book will help you dive deep into relationship and communication psychology. You’ll learn what to do (and what not to do) if you want your partner to open up to you and feel understood and valued. Easy-to-read, full of examples and exercises, and it’s yours today if you sign up.






Discover the secrets in this six-page special report, watch the seven-minute video (seen by over 5 million people) and learn how to reignite your intimate relationship, increasing the pleasure, mutuality, and passion you both feel.



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Compassionate Communication is one of the 7 Critical Relationship Skills That You Will Want To Master. Learn them during this powerful webinar.



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Take the first step toward the relationship of your dreams.  Learn the tools for open and confident communication, and build a foundation of trust, intimacy and understanding.  Begin the challenge today.  

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