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"If your relationship feels stuck in a rut or you two are
struggling to get along... and you what you really want is to make your Relationship Remarkable... You are in the right place!"


Imagine if you could...

  • Spend less time upsetting each other and more time enjoying each other! Feel Adored, Cherished, Respected, and Appreciated daily

  • Feel like a priority again and get your precious needs met without having to beg or manipulate

  • Have your lover listen, really listen AND really want to hear what you have to say, understand what you mean and value how you feel

  • Have it all, Emotions, Communication, Connection, Intelligence, and Intimacy all with one person

  • Deal with differences, disagreements, and difficulties with courage, compassion, and curiosity

  • Heal your history, forgive each other, let go of the past and build a brave new exciting future together

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Make the next part of your relationship, the BEST part of your relationship.

“We came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save our relationship.  


We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit? All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."

                                                                                                                                                                      M.L. San Diego, CA

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

                                                            Jessie, Essex Junction VT

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."                                                                                                                        K.S. Santa Cruz, Ca.

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets."                                                                                         
                                                          S.J. - Estes Park, Colorado

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Paul Sterling, is the Best-Selling Author of ARGUE LESS, LOVE MORE, a Relationship, Intimacy & Communication Coach and the creator of Love
By Design - Making Your Relationship Remarkable


“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  
Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”


                                                                                                                   Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ

“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 

                                                                                                                      Jerome – Golden, Colorado

You are about to discover the secrets you need to bring your love back to life, reawakening the intimacy, open up your communication, and create a whole new world of possibility your relationship.  

Are You Ready to Make Your Relationship Remarkable?


Dear Friend,


I was once told you teach what you need to learn… and what I needed to learn about was relationships.


I went through the devastation of 1 divorce and several broken engagements. I know up close and personal how much pain, shame, embarrassment, expense, and impact unnecessary breakups can have on you and the people you love. 


Relationships can be full of stress, drama, confusion, frustration, overwhelm and heartbreak but they don't have to be. Don't worry, I know about the good stuff too - but      remember when you go to the dentist for them to fill a cavity - they drill before they fill...


     So back to my story, somewhere along the way, I became obsessed with finding a                 better way. I wanted to break the code so I could demystify and simplify relationships.


I     I took the skills I developed as an international business consultant and highly-trained       problem solver working with organizations ranging from the city of Albuquerque, NM,       to working north of the Arctic Circle for the Alaska Native Association and over to Hong Kong to work with the Sheraton Hotels… you get the idea.


And, I mixed those skills with my study of human behavior and personal growth that I learned from working for Tony Robbins and being mentored by Marshall Thurber, Bob Proctor, Byron Katie, Marshall Rosenberg and many more

In my research, I discovered that there are 100s if not 1,000s of things that impact your relationship. I'm sure that is not news to you... But what I also found that totally surprised me was that was really only one system running the show. A system that could make your relationship remarkable or miserable and that most people don't even know it is there.

Your computer has an OS (Operating System), your cell phone has an OS (Operating System) and your relationship has an OS (Operating System).

I call it your ROS (Relationship Operating System) and understanding this is why I can help clients get results that others can't. In an extreme case, one couple who were ready to call it quits, came to me and were able to get results after failing with 6 therapists in a row.


The second reason my work is so effective is that I have identified 7 Essential Relationship Skills that will turn around almost any relationship challenge.

Understanding and updating your ROS will clear up the confusion and overwhelm and leave you feeling clear and confident. Mastering the 7 Essential Skills will give you the tools to transform almost any situation.

My system has helped couples from around the world who were certain their situation was hopeless. They overcame issues including broken agreements, betrayals, affairs, shattered trust, lost intimacy, long-standing misunderstandings and communication problems.

One of the first skills I taught them was my communication model to transform the way they communicate. They became less reactive and more responsive so that they both felt heard, understood and valued. That started them on the empowerment cycle in their relationship and they stopped feeling like victims.

Most couples are doing the best they can with the tools they have… but sadly, it’s often not enough. 

They love each other, they are smart, they are often super successful in other areas of life... but when it comes to their relationship, the harder they try, the worse it gets. They just don't have the tools or training needed to succeed. 


You can change all that by making the decision that your future will be better, and it all starts here.


If you are ready to begin the journey of a lifetime, start today with this simple step. Take 30 minutes and transform the way you experience relationships for the rest of your life!

Make the next part of your relationship… the BEST part of your relationship.

In this 30 minute session, we look at where you want to go, where you are now, what's in your way and what your options are.

No, we won't solve all your issues in this one session - but, I promise you, you will walk away with a sense of clarity you may not have had in years, along with confidence about your future and the courage to start the journey...

Something becomes possible on the call that wasn't
possible before - that is a breakthrough. I guarantee
that you will have a breakthrough in our time



What that means is something will open up and

become possible, that didn't seem possible before.

With purpose, passion, and possibility,

Paul Sterling

Leaving a Legacy of Love

Can 30 minutes really make a difference? 



The first step is a 30-minute relationship assessment & breakthrough session. Clients have told me they have gotten more from this session then from years of therapy.

The normal price is $397 and worth every penny - it includes reviewing your relationship survey forms...


Why do I charge that much for a  single session?

Several reasons... the first is I don't want to work with someone who isn't willing to invest in themselves and their relationship. The second is I have spent almost $100,000 developing this technology so you don't have to... And the third is when you spend that much, you show up ready and committed to transforming your relationship. 

But I decided to offer a holiday special price of $97 with a money-back guarantee. I guarantee that you will have a breakthrough in our time together.

What that means is something will open up and become possible, that didn't seem possible before.

I look forward to talking to you soon and helping you re-write your relationship's future, creating a whole new world of possibility...

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Get Your 30-minute Relationship Breakthrough Session...

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Value - Priceless

Normal Cost - $397

Holiday Special - $97

453 E Wonderview, Unite #3
PMB 225
Estes Park, CO, 80517 United States


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