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Bridging The Communication Gap Between Us 
 Better Communication Course for Couples

You want more intimacy, more connection, and more
understanding when communicating with your partner.

Learn how to build a foundation of interpersonal trust, love, and confidence so you and your partner can solve problems as a team, speak with openness and courage, and grow together toward the relationship you both desire.

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What’s the biggest communication goal you and your partner would like to achieve?

You’d like to feel understood and valued while clearly communicating your wants, needs, and feelings to your partner…

You want to clear up past misunderstandings and learn how to resolve conflicts quickly, confidently, and compassionately.

You’re wishing to communicate in a way that encourages your partner to listen and understand, allowing them to open up to you while sharing their own thoughts and emotions

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I’m here to help.

My name is...

Paul  Sterling


  • A relationship & intimacy coach with 25+ years of experience

  • The author of the best-seller
    "Argue Less, Love More"

  • The creator of 'The Couples Course', 
    'Single to Relationship Ready'
    & 'The
    Magic Relationship Method'

My four-step communication method lets each of you enter your partner’s world while allowing both parties to feel heard, understood and valued. 

To assist you on your journey, I’m sharing my course…

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Bridging The Gap Between Us  
Better Communication Course for Couples

“Bridging The Gap Between Us: The Compassionate Communication Method for Couples” is a 3-module online course designed to help you learn how to communicate, ignite intimacy, and help you and your partner feel valued, heard, and understood.

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It includes…

  • 4-5 Lessons per module (15-25 minutes each)

  • Downloadable bonuses

  • Journal for progress-tracking and notes

  • Lesson transcripts

  • Printable handouts to use for the exercises

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Here’s what we’ll go over inside the Compassionate Communication Method…

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THE 5 PAINFUL COMMUNICATION MISTAKES that we all make when communicating with our partner.

Have you ever felt that you’d done or said something wrong, something that upset your partner-but you didn’t even realize what it was? In this module, we identify common communication errors so you can avoid them now, prevent them in future, and learn to heal quickly when triggered.

Some of them include…

  • Mistake #1: which causes your partner to stop listening to you and shut themselves down emotionally.


  • Mistake #3 : which causes about 90% of all misunderstandings in relationships (and that’s actually easy to fix.)


  • Mistake #5 : which puts a sudden stop to the openness and intimacy in your relationship.

These mistakes can often make you feel distant and disconnected from your partner.  Once you know how to avoid them, you’ll stop widening the emotional gap between you, and start reducing and resolving misunderstandings and conflicts.  You’ll have the chance to be open and honest, growing closer in an atmosphere of trust.



Using my four-step method, you’ll to able to rekindle the spark between you and your partner, even if it has been missing for a long while!


Learn how to enter each other’s worlds openly and create a deep, intimate, and profound connection. Help your partner feel heard, valued, and understood in conversation. 


Build an “us” bubble around you both that enables each person to meet conflicts with compassion and courage, while clearing up misunderstandings in minutes.



Applying any one of these 7 sacred secrets will spark intimacy and make you and your partner feel loved, desired, and understood.

Some of them include…

  • Secret #1: Spark powerful feelings of understanding, compassion, and connection with your partner. You can do it as soon as tonight!   

  • Secret #2: Learn how to show your partner that you hear and understand them, so that you can exponentially increase your intimacy.


  • Secret #7: Have you heard someone say, Don’t sweat the small stuff in your relationship? With Secret #7, you’ll understand why they were wrong, and how you can use the small stuff to foster deep, personal connections.

If you’ve been feeling like your relationship is as shaky as a house of cards, like you’re not getting through to your partner, and worry that you’ll never be able to connect, know that you are not alone.  I’m here to help you 


Build Your Foundation: 

With these three modules, you’ll learn to create a sturdy foundation through clear, connected, and compassionate communication.  You’ll understand how to help your partner feel valued, heard, and understood, transforming your relationship into the very best it can be! 

Why is “Bridging the Gap Between Us” a MUST for any couple who wants to learn how to communicate with courage, compassion, and curiosity?

More compassion…

When you’re able to communicate compassionately, your partner will
feel heard, understood, and most importantly, loved. 

Compassionate communication
helps you speak so that your partner hears your every word, and listen so that your partner feels safe and
valued, ready to open up and share their deepest truths. 

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More intimacy…

When you know how to create and maintain intimacy and understanding with your lover, you’ll be able to

kindle that spark in your relationship like never before. 


You’ll feel a dramatic increase in

the love, connection, and passion between you!

Less drama & misunderstanding…

With less misunderstandings and drama come fewer upsets and conflicts, and more opportunities to have challenging conversations without feeling the need to defend yourself, you’ll be able to resolve your issues and enhance your intimacy.

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Couples all around the world LOVE and SWEAR BY Paul’s method. Here are some of their stories:

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.

 - Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ


Start your journey with “Bridging the Gap Between Us” today and receive these






Get instant access to the best-selling book:

This book will help you dive deep into relationship and communication psychology. You’ll learn what to do (and what not to do) if you want your partner to open up to you and feel understood and valued. Easy-to-read, full of examples and exercises, and it’s yours today if you sign up.






Discover the secrets in this six-page special report, watch the seven-minute video (seen by over 5 million people) and learn how to reignite your intimate relationship, increasing the pleasure, mutuality, and passion you both feel.



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Compassionate Communication is one of the 7 Critical Relationship Skills That You Will Want To Master. Learn them during this powerful webinar.



Total Value of the 3 Modules & Bonuses (Value $556)

Cost $197 (Value Of Great Communication - Priceless)

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Take the first step toward the relationship of your dreams.  Learn the tools for open and confident communication, and build a foundation of trust, intimacy and understanding.  Begin your journey.  Get Bridging the Gap Between Us today!


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