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Bridging The Communication Gap Between Us 
 Compassionate Communication Course for Couples

You want more intimacy, more compassion, and more
understanding when communicating with your partner.

Learn how to build a foundation of trust, love, and confidence in your relationship so you and your partner can solve problems together, communicate with openness and courage, and grow together toward the relationship you both desire.

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What’s the biggest communication problem you and your partner are facing?

You can’t effectively communicate your wants, needs, and feelings with your partner and you’re feeling misunderstood and unvalued…

You want to clear up past misunderstandings and learn how to resolve conflicts quickly, confidently, and compassionately…

You want to learn how to communicate in a way that has your partner listening and understanding, allowing them to open up to you and share their own thoughts and emotions…

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Relax. I’m here to help.

Hi, My Name’s



  • A Relationship & Intimacy Coach with 25+ years of experience

  • The Author of the Best-seller Argue Less, Love More

  • The Creator of the Compassionate Communicate Course

I’m here to help you learn and use my four-step communication method that lets you enter your partner’s world, lets them enter yours, and lets both of you feel heard, understood, and valued.

To help you do this, I’m sharing with you…

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Bridging The Communication Gap Between Us  
Compassionate Communication Course for Couples

“Bridging The Gap Between Us: The Compassionate Communication Method for Couples” is a 3-module online course designed to help you learn how to communicate, ignite intimacy, and help you and your partner feel valued, heard, and understood.

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It includes…

  • 4-5 Lessons per module (15-25 minutes each)

  • Downloadable bonuses

  • Journal for progress-tracking and notes

  • Lesson transcripts

  • Printable handouts to use for the exercises

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Here’s what we’ll go over inside the Compassionate Communication Method…


THE 5 PAINFUL COMMUNICATION MISTAKES – that we all make when communicating with our partner.

Have you ever felt like you’ve done or said something wrong, something that upset your partner – but you didn’t even realize what it was? Inside this module, we’re going to identify these detrimental communication mistakes so you can avoid them, prevent them, and learn how to quickly heal whenever someone gets triggered by those mistakes.

Some of them include…

  • Mistake #1: which causes your partner to stop listening to you and shut themselves down emotionally.


  • Mistake #3 : which causes about 90% of all misunderstandings in relationships (and that’s actually easy to fix.)


  • Mistake #5 : which puts a sudden stop to the openness and intimacy in your relationship.

Making these mistakes will undoubtedly make you feel distant and disconnect you from your partner. When you know how to avoid them, you’ll stop creating this emotional and communicational gap between you and your partner and you will instantly reduce and solve misunderstandings and conflicts. This gives you and your partner more time to be open and honest with yourself, helping your relationship grow.



With this 4-step method I’ve developed, you’ll be able to instantly create a spark between you and your partner – a spark that could have been missing for a while now.

You’ll be able to enter their world, open yourself up, and create a deep, intimate connection that rises above verbal communication.

When you’re using this method, everyone you speak to and care about will feel heard, valued, and understood when they’re talking to you. You’ll learn how to create an “us” bubble surrounding you and your partner that lets both of you meet conflicts with compassion and courage, as well as clear up misunderstandings in minutes.



Applying any one of these 7 sacred secrets will spark intimacy and make you and your partner feel loved, desired, and understood.

Some of them include…

  • Secret #1: It allows you to ignite strong feelings of understanding and compassion in your partner. And you can do it as soon as tonight!


  • Secret #2 : The biggest intimacy builder in any relationship. You’ll learn why the people you are listening to rarely feel heard – and how you can change that.


  • Secret #7 : Have you ever heard someone say "don't sweat the small stuff in your relationship?" When you discover secret #7, you’ll understand why they were wrong and how you can use “the small stuff” to create deep, intimate connections.

Bringing it all together, in these 3 modules, you’re going to learn how to create a steady foundation for every relationship by communicating clearly, intimately, and compassionately.  

Build this foundation, and from now on, you’ll know how to master communication and always make your partner feel valued, heard, and understood.

Ignore this foundation, and you’ll always feel like you’re not getting through to the person sitting across you, and you’ll never be able to connect deeply and intimately with your partner.

Why is “Bridging the Gap Between Us” a MUST for any couple who wants to learn how to communicate with courage, compassion, and curiosity?

More compassion…

When you’re able to communicate compassionately, the person next to you will feel heard, understood, and most importantly, loved. Compassionate communication will help you talk in a way that has your partner listening to your every word, and helps you listen to your partner in a way that makes them open up and tell you everything.

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More intimacy…

When you know how to instantly create intimacy and understanding with your lover, you’ll be able to ignite that spark in your relationship like never before. With that spark come more love, more compassion, and not to mention, a better love-life.


Less drama & misunderstanding…

With less drama and misunderstanding come fewer upsets and conflicts. With less drama comes the opportunity to have challenging conversations without feeling the need to “defend” yourself in a conversation. It allows you to resolve almost any issue together, all while bringing you closer in the relationship instead of pushing you away.

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Couples all around the world LOVE and SWEAR BY Paul’s method. Here are some of their stories:

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.

 - Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ


Start your journey with “Bridging the Gap Between Us” today and receive these



Total Value of Bonuses - (Value $265)

Total Value of the 3 Modules - (Value $291)

Total Value of the 3 Modules & Bonuses

(Value $556)

Take the first step toward the relationship of your dreams today. Learn how to openly and confidently communicate with your partner and build your relationship on trust, intimacy, and understanding. Start your journey with ““Bridging the Gap Between Us” today.




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