The Couples Course 

Rediscover Your Best Friend, Relearn How To Get
Along, Reignite Your Spark And Remember Why
You Fell In Love In The First Place...


Most couples are doing the best they can with the relationship skills they have… but sometimes it’s not enough.


Here at Argue Less, Love More, Heidi and Paul have created The Couples Course for people just like you to practice ways to handle times like these.

Especially, right now during these rapidly changing, stressful times, it's more critical than ever to have relationship skills and tools that you can really count on.


Challenging times test our ability to get along.  And they test our ability to communicate with compassion, empathy, and understanding.


They test our ability to listen, really listen until our partner feels heard, understood, and valued.


They test our ability to identify, embrace, and express our needs. And it's critical to the long term success and happiness of any relationship, that BOTH people are getting their needs met on a regular basis. 


So, we created this course for people who want to say YES!

  • YES to open, honest, connecting and compassionate communication even when you disagree and are talking about tough emotional topics that you used to avoid

  • YES to increased intimacy that is sweeter than ever before and to using the power of polarity to create remarkable and lasting passion

  • YES to both of you seeing your needs... and your partner's needs, as precious and actually getting them met.

  • YES to building a rock-solid foundation of trust

  • YES to learning to deal with differences, difficulties, and decisions in a way that brings you closer together instead of driving you apart.

  • YES to clearing up misunderstandings in minutes and resolving conflicts with confidence, compassion, and curiosity

  • YES to mastering the 7 essential relationship skills and making the next part of your relationship… the BEST part.

  • YES to rewriting your relationship's future and creating a whole new world of possibility for your life.

If you are ready to begin the journey of a lifetime, start today with this simple step. Join the Couples Course by clicking on the link at the bottom of the page.

Remember this is for you if:

  • If you long for the tenderness of being heard, understood and valued when you are talking about important and emotional issues without being told how you should or shouldn't feel

  • If your partner becomes super-uncomfortable with your vulnerabilities and offers you unwanted advice... or tries to fix you... or defend themselves, rather than being able to "BE WITH YOU."

  • If you have to head to your friends to vent rather than feeling safe to turn towards your partner when emotions arise.

  • If you feel like your partner reacts more like an adversary than your best friend when talking about tough topics

  • If you end up fighting over facts rather than talking about feelings...

  • If you miss being able to talk about anything and everything for hours at a time.


 The Couples Course 

Rediscover Your Best Friend, Relearn How To Get
Along, Reignite Your Spark And Remember Why
You Fell In Love In The First Place...

Join Us Saturday, May 2nd from Noon to 5 PM West Coast Time

The Live, Interactive Couples Course                                                  

   5-Hour live interactive webinar  
(Saturday afternoon - Noon to 5 PM PST over Zoom)   
    * Assigned Practice Partner - Study Buddy
    * Bonus #1 - One-on-One 30 min. Relationship Support Session (normally $197)

Want Even More Support?

Add On: 2 Hour Call with Q&A, Group Support/Coaching Session    

  * 2 hours of Live Support (Sunday A
fternoon - 3 PM to 5 PM PST over Zoom)          

  * Relationship questions answered

  * Learn how to apply your new skills to your specific challenges

  * Ask questions and get answers

  * Learn from others what you might have missed in yourselves


Best Option...

Best OPTION: Add Private, Personalized, 1-on-1 Coaching     
   *  All of the Above - The Couples Course - The Group Support Call
   *  Plus 3 Hours of Private, Personalized One-On-One Coaching  

           (normally $297 per hour)

    * Bonus #1 - One-on-One 30 min. Relationship Support Session (normally $197)
    * Bonus #2 - Paul's  3 module course Bridging the Communication Gap Between You (value $97)




Paul Sterling - international speaker, best selling author & communication and intimacy coach for supporting couples
around the world.

Meet Your Mentors

Heidi Love -  Is an expert in Love and Relationships. She has dedicated her life to helping you find happiness in love. Heidi works with Couples, Individuals and Families..

“We came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save our relationship.  


We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit? All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."

                                                                                                                      - M.L. San Diego, California

"I just wanted to say thank you Heidi for the workshop yesterday. You are really in your element with this and it is so reassuring to hear your message. Communicating effectively has changed our relationship so much. You are a true Bodhisatta of love and kindness. I'm grateful for your teachings in my life."


                                                                                                                          - D.D. Pahoa, Hawaii

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with
Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of
understanding and appreciation for one another."


                                                                                 Jessie, Essex Junction, Vermont

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."                                                                                                   
                                                                                  K.S., Santa Cruz, California

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools
on our own upsets."

                                                                                  S.J., Estes Park, Colorado

Ready For Better Relationship Skills?

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the shuttle hours of operation?

The shuttle operates from 7AM to 7PM 7 days a week. Reservations required.

Can I bring my pet on the shuttle?

Any pet over 10 pounds will be charged the additional passenger rate. Smaller pets under 10 pounds are at no cost if they do not occupy a seat on the shuttle. We must be notified of any pets you plan on bringing with you.

What if I need a car seat?

Car seats and booster seats are available upon request for a $25 fee.

Am I limited to the amount of luggage I can bring?

Two checked bags and two personal bags per person.

What if my flight cancels?

If your flight gets canceled, you must notify our office as soon as possible. A $25 fee may be charged for reservations cancelled with less than 24 hours notice.

What if my flight is delayed?

If your flight gets delayed, you must notify our office as soon as possible.

What is the cancellation policy?

A $25 fee may be charged for reservations canceled with less than 24 hours notice.

What are your COVID-19 precautions?

In effort to reduce the risk to our travelers and drivers we have taken the following steps: -All passengers and drivers must wear a facial covering while in the vehicle. -Number of travelers placed in vehicle has been reduced. -Vehicles are cleaned and sanitized prior to each passenger traveling with us. -For extra safety, please ask us about our private transportation.

Do you travel to other major airports?

Yes, please contact us for pricing if you are traveling to an airport that is not listed.

Do I have to make a reservation?

Yes, reservations are required.


"Never Better... "

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”    

Rick & Sandy,
Phoenix,  AZ.


"Our Relationship Changed..."

"We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp.  And they were so immediately that the general  "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session. We can't thank you enough!”     

- K. L. Denver, CO

"...Magic relationship techniques"

“My fiancé signed us up for your 3-hour workshop. I have studied quite a bit of self-help strategies for relationships over the years as well as studied psychology in college.

I highly recommend your workshop, and think everyone should seize the opportunity to learn your magic relationship techniques!   Thank you from all my heart,”

Jennifer F.
Burlington, VT

453 E Wonderview, Unite #3
PMB 225
Estes Park, CO, 80517 United States

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453 E Wonderview, Unit #3
PMB 225
Estes Park, CO, 80517 United States

Privacy Policy  * Disclaimer Contact * © 2020 Paul F Sterling