"If You’re Here, I'm Guessing Your 

Relationship Isn’t Going As Planned."

“We came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save our relationship.  


We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit? All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."

                                                                                                                        - M.L. San Diego, CA

Hello Friend,

Most likely you have taken my relationship quiz or
watched one of my many youtube videos and want
to know if this
LOVE BY DESIGN system will work
in your situation?

Can it help turn your relationship around even if
things seem hopeless right now and everything you
tried in the past -- just made things worse?

The truth is... I'm not sure.

Over the past 25 years I have helped couples
successfully deal with a wide variety of problems,
but to know if it will work for you... I need to know


Help me, help you.


Let's spend 15-20 minutes together and see what
really going on in your relationship and if this program
is a fit for you or not.


3 Step process

1st Step - Schedule a complimentary Relationship Clarity Session (calendar below)


2nd Step - To Help Me Understand your situation so I can be prepared (answer the questions in this relationship self-assessment - https://www.arguelesslovemore.net/ask

3rd Step - To Help You Understand what's possible and so you can be prepared with your questions - watch this eye-opening video... it's an hour-long and will change the way you look at your relationship.

I value your time and want you to get the most out of time together... I also value my time and want to make you are prepared and ready for our session.


Your Relationship Clarity Session is a 30-minute complimentary conversation we have over Zoom.


By the end of our call,  you will be clear what is running... and often wrecking your relationship and what you can do about it!

Whether you are single or coupled this session will reveal:

  1. What you really want from having a relationship

  2. Where you are now - your current issues

  3. Which of the 7 relationship roadblocks are in the way

  4. What you can do about it (Remarkable Relationship Roadmap) custom-built for you)

You will walk away with confidence, clarity, and a plan that will take you towards a whole new world of possibility for you and your relationship.


These sessions are about 30 minutes and are free of charge. I do because I don't work with everyone, frankly, the reason I get such great results and such amazing testimonials is I only work with couples that are coachable.

Want to know more and see if we could work together?

Go ahead and schedule a Relationship Clarity Session, by scrolling down to the bottom of the page and finding a time and date that works for you.


My promise is that something will open up and become possible, that didn't seem possible before.I look forward to talking to you soon and helping you re-write your relationship's future, creating a whole new world of possibility.

Let's make the next part of your relationship… the BEST part.

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Paul Sterling - international speaker, best selling author & communication and intimacy coach for couples.

"Paul is super concise, compassionate, and humorous. There is nothing in this book that you don't need."

Some of the topics we can cover in your session:

It sucks the life out of the relationship when almost everything you try just seems to make things worse and you are left wondering what the hell happened... where did our love go?

If this sounds familiar - you are not alone and you have options no matter how hopeless things feel right now.

  • Misunderstandings last forever and can't get cleared up

  • Conflicts drive you apart and don't get resolved

  • Difficulties dealing with differences and decisions

  • One or both of your gets triggered any time certain are talked about and hot topics


  • Communication issues - neither of you really feels heard, understood or valued

  • Needs that aren't getting met 

  • Old wounds keep coming up and never seem to heal

  • Intimacy starting to feel like a thing of the past

  • The foundation of trust is eroded or gone

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

                                                                                                                          - Jessie, Essex Junction VT

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."       


- K.S. Santa Cruz, Ca.

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets."     


- S.J. - Estes Park, Colorado

1) Schedule Your Relationship Clarity Session

Get Your 30-minute Relationship Success Session...


2) Help Me Prepare By Answering These Questions
(make sure to scroll down and answer all the question and hit the SUBMIT button at the bottom) 

3) Watch This Video

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4) Download your free copy of my best-seller

Because you took my relationship quiz or watched one of my youtube videos you are eligible for a free download my best-selling book, Argue Less, Love More.
Print it out, read it, study it, do the exercises and you have fewer upsets and better communication... 

"Sterling seems to hit the nail right on the head when he teaches about communication in relationships - making it clear that it's in communication where we build intimacy and connection."

"This book moves well beyond the usual self-help category by providing real hands in the clay instruction on how to create the relationship you want."

"Paul shares 5 easily recognizable things we all do that get in the way of being heard, seen, understood and connected."

"Argue Less Love More is a 911 call for your relationship! A quick read with immediate results."

Click here to download  your FREE copy of my best selling book


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