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“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."
 

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

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Their Story 12-minutes

Minute 0:15 KAYA - Loved Each Very Much - But Very Stuck

Minute 0:29 Strong-Willed - Intense

Minute 0:40 Issues - Not Listen to Each Other - Disconnected

Minute 0:53 Avoid Problems - Swept Under Rug

Minute 1:36 Initial resistance to Relationship Coaching

Minute 2:17 Something Shifted

Minute 2:50 Talking About Tough Topics

Minute 3:11 Clearing up the Past - Healing Hurts

Minute 3:41 Made me a Better Leader

Minute 4:05 People Really Want To Be Heard, Understood & Valued

Minute 4:15 Slowing Down - Moving Into My Heart

Minute 4:52 Changed my Relationship

Minute 5:04 Working on Problems or Preventing Problems or Possibilities

Minute 5:39 The Phenix - New Beginnings

 

Minute 5:44 VERONICA

Minute 5:50 My Mentors

Minute 6:22 We Had Conflict But No Tools

Minute 6:32 Both Very Success People in Business But...

Minute 6:45 Intimacy Not Working


Minute 7:02 Discovering In-To-Me-See

Minute 7:15 Can I Be Vulnerable... Share my Fears - Wounds - Traumas

Minute 8:27 Coaching is Oxegen

Minute 9:03 Changing Painful Patterns
 

Minute 9:35 Fully Expressed

Minute 10:15 Nothing More Powerful Then Having a Guide

Minute 11:15 Creating a Safe Space

 

Minute 11:30 Coaching Not Therapy
 

Minute 11:45 Weekly Support

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“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.

The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”

 

Linda P.  - NY, NY

Listen to the breakthroughs some my are talking about. Here are 3 audio testimonials for your review.

Linda, a yoga teacher from Long Island had 25-year marriage that went from feeling complete hopelessness, years of neglect, affairs to turning things around...

Complete Hopelessness

Julie, a school principal from Texas teacher had a husband that had stopped talking went not communicating to having a 3 hour conversation

We Had Stopped Communicating

Stephine, a research scientist, went from almost breaking up to her partner

to seeing him as her hero

He Became My Hero

“My relationship was so broken and was only a matter of time before ended. We had turned into roommates rather than partners, and only roommates that were living together out of necessity.

We are only about halfway through the course and I can already see 
unlimited possibility. My book of life now has chapters of blank pages at the end for me to write whatever story I want.”

 

Ben – Santa Cruz, CA

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”

 

Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ

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“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 


Jerome – Golden, Colorado
 

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“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language, and infrastructure we both successfully use. 

We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”

 

Melodia  - San Diego, CA

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“We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp.  And they were so immediately
that the general  "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session.

We can't thank you enough!”

 

K.L Denver, CO
 

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“I came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save my relationship.  I had tried everything I could think of to get my relationship "unstuck" over many years and nothing worked. 

Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach.  We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit.  All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us.  

 

As a couple, we interact differently and have largely ridded ourselves of the detrimental communication patterns we had fallen into and couldn't get out of by ourselves.  We are happier and more open with one another now and enjoy the new space that has opened up for us.

Our thanks go to Paul as well as our recommendation.  He's exceptionally good at what he does”.

 

M.L. San Diego, CA

 

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“My fiancé signed us up for your 3-hour workshop. I have studied quite a bit of self-help strategies for relationships over the years as well as studied psychology in college. 

The tools you have given us, as well as the guidance to effectively use them are invaluable. Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven together many different techniques and methods to create something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s easy to learn and remember!

I am finding that I am using the communication tools you have taught us in all my relationships, not just with my fiancé. I feel more confident and comfortable in myself and within my relationships. I have more patience than I have ever had!

I highly recommend your workshop, and think everyone should seize the opportunity to learn your magic relationship techniques!   Thank you from all my heart,”

 

 

Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT

 

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"I took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all, it opened up our communications beautifully.

There were a lot of things we hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be exposed, as a result, created more trust between us, which I already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of." 



 

Dr. Lawrence C.
Boulder, CO

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About Paul...
 
Paul Sterling went from being a commercial fisherman in Alaska to a sought-after couples coach, an international public speaker on love and relationships, and is the best-selling author of Argue Less, Love More which was #1 with both
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couples and counselors. His video, Tantra: Exploring Sacred Sexuality, has been viewed more than 6 million times.  

 

Sterling was a US Delegate for Soviet American Peace Dialogue, Tony Robbins hired him to come and teach his inner circle, he has taught Compassionate Communication Skills to the professors and staff at Naropa University, and taught prison inmates about the power of communication to turn around their lives, he has lead classes around the world from Hawaii to Hong Kong, Alaska to Mexico, Bali to Croatia and all around the USA 


Paul helps couples from around the world communicate better, clear up misunderstandings, resolve ongoing conflicts and get their needs met so that they can deepen their intimacy and go from feeling ignored to being adored.

 

When he is not traveling around the world and teaching, Paul enjoys whitewater kayaking in Colorado, mountain biking through the redwoods of California and learning how to surf in Hawaii.

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”    

- Rick and Sandy, Phoenix  AZ


 

"We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp.  And they were so immediately that the general  "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session. We can't thank you enough!”     

- K.L Denver, CO

 

"The tools you have given us, as well as the guidance to effectively use them are invaluable.
 

Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven together many different techniques and methods to create something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s easy to learn and remember!"          

-  Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT
 

"Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach.  

We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit.  

 

All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."     

 

- M.L. San Diego, CA