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“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.

The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”


Linda P.  - NY, NY

“My relationship was so broken and was only a matter of time before ended. We had turned into roommates rather than partners, and only roommates that were living together out of necessity.

We are only about halfway through the course and I can already see 
unlimited possibility. My book of life now has chapters of blank pages at the end for me to write whatever story I want.”


Ben – Santa Cruz, CA

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”


Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ



“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 

Jerome – Golden, Colorado

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“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language, and infrastructure we both successfully use. 

We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”


Melodia  - San Diego, CA


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“We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp.  And they were so immediately
that the general  "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session.

We can't thank you enough!”


K.L Denver, CO

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“I came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save my relationship.  I had tried everything I could think of to get my relationship "unstuck" over many years and nothing worked. 

Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach.  We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit.  All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us.  


As a couple, we interact differently and have largely ridded ourselves of the detrimental communication patterns we had fallen into and couldn't get out of by ourselves.  We are happier and more open with one another now and enjoy the new space that has opened up for us.

Our thanks go to Paul as well as our recommendation.  He's exceptionally good at what he does”.


M.L. San Diego, CA


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“My fiancé signed us up for your 3-hour workshop. I have studied quite a bit of self-help strategies for relationships over the years as well as studied psychology in college. 

The tools you have given us, as well as the guidance to effectively use them are invaluable. Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven together many different techniques and methods to create something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s easy to learn and remember!

I am finding that I am using the communication tools you have taught us in all my relationships, not just with my fiancé. I feel more confident and comfortable in myself and within my relationships. I have more patience than I have ever had!

I highly recommend your workshop, and think everyone should seize the opportunity to learn your magic relationship techniques!   Thank you from all my heart,”



Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT


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"I took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all it opened up our communications beautifully.

There were a lot of things we hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be exposed, as a result created more trust between us, which I already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of." 


Dr. Lawrence C.
Boulder, CO

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If you are ready for your breakthrough in your relationship... you are in the right place.

  • Better Communication Skills - both of you feel heard, understood and valued.

  • Both Of You Get Your Needs Met

  • You Deal with Differences with Compassion and Understanding

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