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Welcome... and You Are Almost There

Because you took my relationship quiz or watched one of my youtube videos you are eligible for a free download my best-selling book, Argue Less, Love More.

Just enter your first name and email to get instant access to your GIFT COPY of my best seller. When you get it, print it out, read it, study it, do the exercises and you have fewer upsets and better communication... 





"Argue Less Love More is a 911 call for your relationship! A quick read with immediate results."

"Sterling seems to hit the nail right on the head when he teaches about communication in relationships - making it clear that it's in communication where we build intimacy and connection."

"Paul is super concise, compassionate, and humorous. There is nothing in this book that you don't need."

"This book moves well beyond the usual self-help category by providing real hands in the clay instruction on how to create the relationship you want."

"Seeing these 5 ways that my partner and I have missed out on being really present with each other has re-ignited the love that we always knew was there somewhere."

"Paul shares 5 easily recognizable things we all do that get in the way of being heard, seen, understood and connected."


“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

                                                                                                                          - Jessie, Essex Junction VT

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."       


- K.S. Santa Cruz, Ca.

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets."     


- S.J. - Estes Park, Colorado

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