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ATTENTION COUPLES: Do you want to bring your relationship back to life and reawaken the love, intimacy, connection, and communication?

The 7 Types of Relationship Problems 

After 25 Years of Working With Couples From All Around the World... I Have Noticed That About 90% of The Issues Couples Face - Fit into These 7  Categories

The 7 Relationship Problem Types

  1. Communication Issues

    1. Collapse (giving up on being heard)

    2. Combative (angry & manipulative)

    3. Don't feel Heard, Understood or Valued

    4. BSW - Shame, Blame & Guilt

  2. Conflicts & Misunderstanding

    1. Small things become Big Issues

    2. Issues get Recycled vs Resolved

    3. The more you talk about it - the
      worse it gets


  3. Needs Not Getting Met Or Mattering

    1. Being a Martyr - give up on needs

    2. Being a Monster - demanding my needs get met

    3. Cant talk about Needs without feeling Needy

    4. Feel Adored, Cherished, Respected, and Appreciated daily

  4. Broken Trust - Lack of Commitment

    1. Broken Agreements

    2. Your (Their) Word Doesn’t Matter Anymore

    3. Jealousy

    4. Affairs

  5. Intimacy Fading Away - 3 shades

    1. EMOTIONAL - It doesn’t feel safe talking about emotions

    2. PHYSICAL - We rarely touch anymore 

    3. SEXUAL - Our Love life is becoming a thing of the past

  6. Wounds & Triggers 

    1. Walking on Eggshells

    2. Afraid of talking about issues - don’t
      want to trigger partner

    3. Past pains/relationships keep coming up 

    4. Emotionally shut down

  7. Differences That Divide Us 

    1. Given up on your dreams

    2. Differences create distance

    3. Hard to talk about decisions

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After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

Are You Ready to Transform Your Relationship?

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  • There are 100s if not 1,000s of things that impact your relationship but only system that runs it. His eye-opening explanation of your ROS (Relationship Operating System) and the 7 Essential Relationship Skills will demystify and simplify relationships for you.

    Understanding your ROS clears up the confusion and overwhelm and leaves you with clarity, tools and the confidence to transform your relationship.

  • His communication system has been successfully taught to a wide variety of people ranging from university professors, counselors, therapists, to prison inmates and at-risk high school students; and of course to couples around the world.

  • Couples use his methods to transform the way they communicate so that they both feel heard, understood and valued. They become less reactive and more responsive. They start to feel empowered in their relationship again and no longer feel like a victim.

  • Even though many of Paul's clients are successful, smart, committed and still love each, they were struggling in their relationship. They tried almost everything before finding Paul's coaching. His new program Love By Design - Making Your Relationship Remarkable was designed to couples access to his 25 years of experience normally saved for his high end 1-on-1 private clients

  • His method has helped people who were certain their situation was hopeless
    but were willing to give it just one more try. They have overcome issues including broken agreements, betrayals, affairs, shattered trust, lost intimacy, long-standing misunderstandings, and communication problems.

“We came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save our relationship.  


We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit? All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."

                                                                                                                        - M.L. San Diego, CA

If you're ready for results like these apply now to take the first steps..

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

                                                                                                                              Jessie, Essex Junction VT

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                               K.S. Santa Cruz, Ca.

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets."

                                                                                                                               S.J. - Estes Park, Colorado

Get Your 60-minute Relationship Support Session...

Most couples are doing the best they can with the tools they  have… but sadly, it’s often not enough.

They love each other and are working hard at making the relationship work but they don't have the tools or trainings needed to succeed. 


YOU can change all that by making the decision that your future will be better, and it all starts here.


If you are ready to begin the journey of a lifetime, start today with this simple step. Take 30 minutes and transform the way you experience relationships for the rest of your life.

Make the next part of your relationship… the BEST part of your relationship.

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Value - Priceless

Price was $197... this is my way of helping out during stressful times.

Can 60 minutes really make a difference?


In fact, I offer a money-back guarantee that you will have a breakthrough in our time together. What that means is something will open up and become possible, that didn't seem possible before.

I look forward to talking to you soon and helping you re-write your relationship's future, creating a whole new world of possibility.

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