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Thank You For Being The Kind Of Person Who Is Committed To Creating A Breakthrough In Your Relationship And Making It Extra-Ordinary Even If It Feels Hopeless Right Now...

It's important to me that you feel totally safe with us through this Relationship Breakthrough Process, so you can make the best decision for your relationship and your future.

That means three criteria must be met:

  1. That we know enough about you to be absolutely sure that our approach will help you transform your relationship.

  2. That you know enough about us and our process to be sure for yourself that it will transform your relationship.

  3. That you have the time & commitment you need to focus on your relationship.

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Paul Sterling

Argue Less, Love More Couples Coaching

Relationship Breakthrough Process

Our Process Is Simple ...

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We need to make sure we truly "get you" so WE know if we can help.

Simply tell us a little about yourself and book a call.

We need to make sure you truly "get us" so YOU know we can help.

All you need to do is watch one 15-minute video.

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We need to have a conversation to see if we're a good fit.

Finally, we look forward to speaking with you to answer any questions you have.

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Let's Get Started ...


We'd like to ask you a few questions so we can find out a little more about your relationship - we need to know we can make a difference to your results.

Once you've shared your responses to our questions you'll have the opportunity to book a call with me or one of my team members.

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.

The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”


Linda P.  - NY, NY

Listen to the breakthroughs some my are talking about. Here are 3 audio testimonials for your review.

Linda, a yoga teacher from Long Island had 25-year marriage that went from feeling complete hopelessness, years of neglect, affairs to turning things around...

Complete Hopelessness

Julie, a school principal from Texas teacher had a husband that had stopped talking went not communicating to having a 3 hour conversation

We Had Stopped Communicating

Stephine, a research scientist, went from almost breaking up to her partner

to seeing him as her hero

He Became My Hero

“My relationship was so broken and was only a matter of time before ended. We had turned into roommates rather than partners, and only roommates that were living together out of necessity.

We are only about halfway through the course and I can already see 
unlimited possibility. My book of life now has chapters of blank pages at the end for me to write whatever story I want.”


Ben – Santa Cruz, CA

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”


Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ



“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 

Jerome – Golden, Colorado

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“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language, and infrastructure we both successfully use. 

We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”


Melodia  - San Diego, CA

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