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Don't just download this book, print it out, read it, study it, do the exercises and you will have fewer upsets and better communication... 

"Argue Less Love More is a 911 call for your relationship! A quick read with immediate results."

"This book moves well beyond the usual self-help category by providing real hands in the clay instruction on how to create the relationship you want."

"Sterling seems to hit the nail right on the head when he teaches about communication in relationships - making it clear that it's in communication where we build intimacy and connection."


"Seeing these 5 ways that my partner and I have missed out on being really present with each other has re-ignited the love that we always knew was there somewhere."

"Paul is super concise, compassionate, and humorous. There is nothing in this book that you don't need."

Click here to download  your FREE copy of my best selling book

“We came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save our relationship.  


We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit? All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us."

                                                                                                                        - M.L. San Diego, CA

Do you still love each other, but are having a hard time getting along? Do you want to bring your relationship back to life and reawaken the love, intimacy, connection, and communication?

My name is Paul Sterling and for the past 25 years, I have been coaching couples. And here is what I have noticed.


Most couples are doing the best they can with the tools they have… but sadly, it’s often not enough.

They still care about each other and are working hard to making the relationship work but... almost everything they try, just makes things worse.


YOU can change all that...

That is why we created the Relationship Clarity Session.

This is for you if you want clarity about what is running... and often wrecking your relationships and what you can do about it!

Whether you are single or coupled this session will reveal:

  1. What you really want from having a relationship

  2. Where you are now - your current issues

  3. Which of the 7 relationship roadblocks are in the way

  4. What you can do about it (Remarkable Relationship Roadmap) custom-built for you)

You will walk away with confidence, clarity, and a plan that will take you towards a whole new world of possibility for you and your relationship.

To schedule your Relationship Clarity Session, scroll down to the bottom of the page then find time and date that works for you.

These sessions are about 30-45 minutes and are free of charge – our gift to you.


My promise is that something will open up and become possible, that didn't seem possible before.I look forward to talking to you soon and helping you re-write your relationship's future, creating a whole new world of possibility.

Lets make the next part of your relationship… the BEST part.

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Paul Sterling - international speaker, best selling author & communication and intimacy coach for couples.

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

                                                                                                                          - Jessie, Essex Junction VT

"We had amazing breakthroughs about empathy and being able to meet each other's needs. I couldn't believe that he was able to help us through our most intense moments, and I have never had such an effective therapy."       


- K.S. Santa Cruz, Ca.

“After just the initial two-hour session my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets."     


- S.J. - Estes Park, Colorado

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