Attention: Couples that still love each other but are struggling and want to bring back that loving feeling…
How to go From Feeling Ignored…
To Being Adored
A Live, Interactive, and Heart-Opening Webinar
I’m going to jump right in…
If You Fix The Right Problems, You Are Only Weeks Away From Being Adored Again… How cool is that?
For years I was focused on the WRONG PROBLEM… and didn’t understand why I didn’t make any progress.
Attention: Couples that still love each other but are struggling and want that loving feeling back, discover…
How to go From Feeling Ignored…
…To Being Adored
A Live, Interactive, and Heart-Opening Webinar
I’m going to jump right in…
If You Fix The Right Problems, You Are Only Weeks
Away From Being Adored Again… How Cool Is That?
For years I was focused on the WRONG PROBLEM… and didn’t understand why I didn’t make any progress.
In fact, many of the things I did to ‘FIX things’… just made them worse.
I was stuck, thinking I had to figure it out all by myself – after all, real men don’t ask for help. And after 18 years as a commercial fisherman in Alaska, I considered myself a real man.
Luckily, after 1 divorce, 4 painfully broken engagements, and lots of trial and heart-breaking errors – I finally reached out to some very wise MENTORS.
The METHODS they shared with me, blew me away and made me wish I had asked for their coaching years earlier…
The Reason So Many Couples Don’t Solve
Their Issues Is That They’re Focused On
Fixing The Wrong Problem.
They are looking for WHO is the PROBLEM – VS – WHAT is the PROBLEM.
Focusing on who to blame just causes more upsets, hurt feelings and separation…
So here you go – after going through my own struggles and over 25 years of coaching couples, it all comes down to only 3 persistent problems.
And...
“A Problem Clearly Defined
Is A Problem Half-Solved.”
What are these persistent problems that cause about 80-90% of your relationship issues.
Here you go…
Problem #1 –
Communication Challenges
“When your communication falls apart – so does your relationship.”
The quality of your relationship is based on the quality of your communication, but most of us were never really trained to communicate with compassion through the tough stuff…
You know you are having Communication Challenges when:
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The more you talk about it… the worse it gets.
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Looking for whom to blame – whose fault is it…
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Using BSW language – Letting someone know how Bad, Stupid or Wrong they are – criticism just isn’t sexy…
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Attacking each other or being Defensive
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Oh yes, then there is The Silent Treatment
SOLUTION: Learn a way to Bridge The Communication Gap so that both of you feel heard, understood and valued.
Problem #2 –
Difficulty Dealing With Differences
“A great relationship is about two things. First, appreciating
the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.”
All couples have differences and difficulties – it’s how you handle them to will decide if your relationship has a future.
Does your current method bring you closer or erode the foundation of your relationship?
You know you are having Difficulties With Your Difference when:
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Constant Conflicts keep showing up over the same issues
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Misunderstandings don’t get resolved – just pushed under the rug
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Decisions are hard to talk about or make without arguments
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You don’t know how to deal with different Vision, Values, Dreams & Desires for your relationship and your future
SOLUTION: Learn a way to Deal With The Differences with love, compassion and understanding.
Problem #3 –
Not Meeting Each
Other’s Necessary Needs
“There are basic, universal needs that make us tick
and drive all human behavior.” Tony Robbins
One of the primary reasons to be in a relationship… is to meet each other’s needs. The problem here is most couples have a hard time even talking about their needs…
What happened in your past relationships when you felt like your needs didn’t matter anymore? Or maybe your partner didn’t feel like their needs were met? Game over!
You know your Necessary Needs aren’t getting met when:
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You can’t even talk about your needs without feelings of shame, confusion, embarrassment or fear of rejection
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You’re afraid that having NEEDS makes you NEEDY and Undesirable
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You don’t even know what your needs are (there are 10 critical ones) or how to ask for want you want
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You wish you didn’t have needs at all
SOLUTION: Discover how to Notice, Name and Negotiate Needs so that both of you feel that you needs are precious. There are just 10 necessary needs to meet to take your relationship from ordinary to extraordinary
So are you ready to go from feeling ignored to being adored?
Here is your first step…
Join Me As I Pull Back The Certain &
Reveal the Secret on How To Go From Feeling Ignored to Being Adored …
what: FREE WEBINAR –
when:APRIL 3rd 2019
time: 6:30 PM west coast time - USA
where: live, interactive over the internet
enter your name and email: so I can save you a seat and rush you the login info: https://www.arguelesslovemore.net/webinar
This Webinar is for people who want:
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To go from feeling ignored to being adored
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Who know there has to be more
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To feel heard, understood and valued
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Their Needs To Matter Again
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To deal with differences with compassion
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Their relationship to get better and better over time
As one of my mentors said… “One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular.” Tony Robbins