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“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever.

 

My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 


Jerome – Golden, Colorado

Webinar: Sunday, Sept 8th, 6:00PM Pacific

ATTENTION: This Webinar is for couples who love each other, but are struggling to get along and want to bring back the intimacy, the ease and that loving feeling…
 

Love By Design

 Making Your Relationship Remarkable


A Live, Interactive, and Heart-Opening Webinar

 

I’m going to jump right in with the good news...

 

Work on the RIGHT issues, you are only weeks away from being ADORED again…
 
How exciting is that?

Now for the bad news.

It's work. There, I said it, turning your relationship around is work. There is no magic pill. and believe me, I've looked.

 

So if your relationship isn't worth working, this isn't for you.

AND...

 

Even if you work really hard, but you are trying to fix the WRONG PROBLEMS… you not going to make any progress.

I learned this one the hard way.

 

But I did learn it and now I can help you turn your relationship around even if you feel like reluctant roommates right now. You can go from feeling ignored... to being adored and make your relationship remarkable.


“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.

The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”

 

Linda P.  - NY, NY

Join me for this FREE, LIVE, INTERACTIVE event.
Register below and get the details!

Relationship Secrets I'll Reveal in the Webinar...

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Why so few relationships are driven by intimacy and what you can do about it

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The difference between Intimacy-Driven and
Fear-Driven Relationships...

The dynamic built into almost every relationship
that causes most of this conflict, confusion and
heartbreak.

 

If you don’t understand what it is… your relationship can be a living hell. (it's simple to understand - not always easy to do)

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Aren't you tired of the drama, issues, upsets, conflicts, and misunderstandings in your relationship?

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Want a simple, powerful communication method that makes sure both of you feel heard, understood, and valued... Now that really rocks.

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One of the other benefits of all this is more presence, pleasure

and passion.

“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship has never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”

Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ

Is This Webinar For You?

 

This ISN'T for you if:

  • You want to use these tools to manipulate your partner and get your way.
     

  • You just want to blame your partner.
     

  • You are looking for an easy solution or quick-fix that never lasts.
     


Okay, now that we got that out of the way,

 

 

This IS FOR you if:
 

  • You want to spend less time in the therapist's office arguing over who caused the current upset and more time in the life enjoying each other.
     

  • Your relationship is worth working on and you are willing to do the work - you just need to now what to do and how to do it...
     

  • You're a couple in crisis and need to do something before it's too late to save your relationship.
     

  • You're a couple stuck in a rut where the same issues keep showing up time and time again without being resolved and you are ready to change.
     

  • You're a couple in good shape but you want more tools and techniques to increase the amount of love, intimacy, and understanding you experience daily.
     

  • You're single and you want to know ‘what went wrong’ in your last relationship, so you don't make the same mistakes.
     

Are you ready to make having a Remarkable Relationship a priority?

If so, then let's get you registered for my upcoming webinar by entering your name and email in the space below. If you are super busy like me and need a reminder texted to me... include your cell phone.

 

Oh yes, you may want to know why I made this webinar free for now?

Two main reasons:


1) I have been given so much by my mentors, I wanted to 'Pay It Forward'... to give back and to make a difference for couples that are going through painful times and feeling confused.

2) I love what I do and I love working with motivated couples that still love each other but don't have the tools, training or skills they need to solve the problems that come with having a meaningful relationship. 

The second reason is this... from time to time I do relationship workshops, webinars and private, personalized mentoring for those who want to master the methods they need to make their relationship remarkable...

If you think this may be for you, this is a chance to see if you resonate with my mentoring style and what I have to reveal.

Interested?

Join me for 1 1/2 hour deep dive into what really runs - and often wrecks relationships (your ROS - Relationship Operating System) and you can do to have it work for you and not against you anymore...

Just enter your info below...

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DATE & TIME

Sept 8th, 2019

Sunday Evening
6:00 PM Pacific

“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language and infrastructure we both successfully use. 

We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”                                                     

Melodia, San Diego, CA

Register now to save yourself a space and get the webinar information emailed to you...

Please save the special link I will email you.


Now just enter your name and email to the left... 

 

If you are busy like me and need a text reminder, include your cell phone number...

“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."
 

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

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Paul Sterling -
Your Relationship & Intimacy Coach: 


Creator of Love By Design - Make Your Relationship Remarkable Method.  The system came from over 25 years of coaching couples through so many of life's issues.
 

During those years, Paul trained in neuro-linguistic programming and neuro-associative conditioning, plus he studied with Anthony Robbins, Bob Proctor (of The Secret), The amazing, Byron Katie and Marshall Rosenberg - The creator of NVC (Nonviolent Communication) 

 

He combined all of this knowledge with his own experience to write his book on relationship communication "Argue Less, Love More'.

This book became Amazon Best Seller with both couples and counselors because of its simplicity and usefulness. The exercises at the end of each chapter can help you to improve YOUR relationships.

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Paul has consulted for governments and businesses and taught his communication method in high schools, universities, churches, and even prisons. He has taught from Hawaii to Hong Kong and from Alaska to Bali.
 

He has had his own newspaper column and has been interviewed by numerous newspapers, TV shows, and radio talk shows around the U.S.  and even made appearances on Russian TV. 

Client Feedback - Read and see if can relate...

“Truly transformational – I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative of my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love or stronger than I imagined they could ever be. I am grateful.” 


Jerome – Golden, Colorado
 

                                                             

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“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."
 

Jessie, Essex Junction VT
 

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“I was desperate for better communication with my beloved. We felt like cats and dogs trying to get along and understand one another. This course gave us the tools, language, and infrastructure we both successfully use. 

We now feel a breath of new possibility for our future and feel a new level of intimacy and love that is deeply fulfilling and exciting.”

 

Melodia  - San Diego, CA
 

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“My relationship was so broken and was only a matter of time before ended. We had turned into roommates rather than partners, and only roommates that were living together out of necessity.

We are only about halfway through the course and I can already see 
unlimited possibility. My book of life now has chapters of blank pages at the end for me to write whatever story I want.”

 

Ben – Santa Cruz, CA
 

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“We found your language and examples amazingly easy to grasp.  And they were so immediately
that the general  "tone" of our relationship changed dramatically after only one session.

We can't thank you enough!”

 

K.L Denver, CO
 

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“Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  

Our relationship had never been better, our only regret is we did not find him 25 years ago.”

 

Rick and Sandy, Phoenix AZ
 

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“I started out feeling hopeless and alienated in my marriage. I wondered if it was over and used this workshop as my last effort. I came away feeling empowered, hopeful and willing to surrender to unconditionally loving my partner.

The future is wide open and we get to choose from awareness, not pain.”

 

Linda P.  - NY, NY

 

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“I came to Paul as a last-ditch effort to save my relationship.  I had tried everything I could think of to get my relationship "unstuck" over many years and nothing worked. 

Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach.  We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit.  All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us.  

 

As a couple, we interact differently and have largely ridded ourselves of the detrimental communication patterns we had fallen into and couldn't get out of by ourselves.  We are happier and more open with one another now and enjoy the new space that has opened up for us.

Our thanks go to Paul as well as our recommendation.  He's exceptionally good at what he does”.

 

M.L. San Diego, CA
 

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“My fiancé signed us up for your 3-hour workshop. I have studied quite a bit of self-help strategies for relationships over the years as well as studied psychology in college. 

The tools you have given us, as well as the guidance to effectively use them are invaluable. Your method is truly magic as you have brilliantly woven together many different techniques and methods to create something that is so simple, yet so effective because it’s easy to learn and remember!

I am finding that I am using the communication tools you have taught us in all my relationships, not just with my fiancé. I feel more confident and comfortable in myself and within my relationships. I have more patience than I have ever had!

I highly recommend your workshop, and think everyone should seize the opportunity to learn your magic relationship techniques!   Thank you from all my heart,”

 

 

Jennifer F. - Burlington, VT

 

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